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I just didn’t know whether we really ‘got’ each other.Then over dinner, I was telling some story about what inspired me to change careers, and she pretty much finished my sentences for me.“I don’t care whether it’s date one or 21, but he has to have me laughing hard before I sleep with him.If I’m dating someone and the vibe has been so-so, if he all of a sudden has me on the floor laughing, it makes me see him in a whole new light. It says you’re confident, you can make fun of life and you’re probably imaginative in bed.” Let’s face it, a kiss is not just a kiss.Many consider it a testing ground for whether, and when, they should take thingsfurther.“It sounds cheesy but I know I’m ready for sex when his kiss makes me go nuts,” says Brooke, 25, from Providence, RI.
While there are no hard-and-fast rules, men and women do rely on certain signposts to know when they’re ready for sex with someone new.
It made me feel gross.” Why does exclusivity make such a difference?
Perhaps because people feel they can really let loose when they're secure in the relationship.
Explains Leslie, 30, of Madison, NJ: “I’m self-conscious about my body as it is, so I know that when I feel like unabashedly ripping my clothes off in front of him, I’ve reached a safe place.” Getting to this point is a gradual process.
“I like to have a few kissing sessions, sometimes clothed, other times partially clothed, to get used to the idea of being naked,” she says.
The fact that she understood my thinking in such depth convinced me that we were really in sync — which would translate well in the bedroom.